Why have Kids?

Look how kids can change you for good:

They help you to:

•  Increase your patience.

Measuring tolerance level  in a scale of 1 to 10, if your tolerance level was  0 before you gave birth to your first child, After her/his  birth it may increase  to say 2 insha Allah, after your second child’s birth its level may  increase to 5. So imagine if you have 10 kids J !

No wonder why women who birth 10 gets Jannah.

So patience is directly proportional to the number of kids you have.

•  To be selfless and sacrificing

It is very difficult to have something of your own, they come and ask for it. You cannot even eat a sweet without sharing a piece with them they come and ask for it no matter where you go and hide J, they are aware of all my moves..the little detectives.

You would prefer to buy clothes, books and toys for them from the money that you had kept aside for your own clothes J.

You sometimes will go to bed without food if they eat your share especially if the food was tasty.

•     To be active

They won’t let yousleep when they are awake. And you will haveto finish most of the work when they are asleep.

•   To be creative and entertaining

                                                              

You have to keep thinking of new ideas to keep them busy when you work on my laptop or when you cook food for them.

•   To be good to others

When you scold or use bad language with others, they catch up very soon. You will see them doing the same with in no time, so you need to be very careful.

•   To be a good cook

They can starve for days if the food doesn’t turn out to be tasty.                                                                                   

•    To be a good nurse

                                                 

You will have to keep track of their medicine’s schedule and stay awake at night if they are not well. You will have to wash and cloth them and take care of their hygiene.

• To be a good teacher

                                            

You need to teach them to live as they grow and inculcate good values in them Insha Allah.

•     To be a good cleaner

                                                         

You should be ready with a broom and mop all the time to keep the place clean when they are awake. They dirty the floor with in no time, they spill fluids they throw toys every ware etc etc.

Keeping the house clean would be a dream come true if you have kids.

• To organize yourself

                                               

You will have to keep track of the time that you need to do each task and schedule them.

•   To be good laundress

                                                     

They spill many things on their clothes and cleaning them is a nightmare.

•  To be a loving person

                                                             

They are very caring and loving and their kisses, hugs and the smile on their face will show it all. They melt your heart and make you soft.

•  Understand your value and take care of your health

                                                 

In order to do all these you will need to take care of yourself so that you are healthy enough to give them your time and love. You will feel needed and important.

•   To be a good Wife

                                                      

You will try to argue and nag your husband less when you see the sad faces of your kids after you both have a fight. This will help you to improve your relationship with  your spouse.

•    Last but not the least; they will help you get closer to Allah

                                                      

I can’t explain the gratitude that you will have towards your lord for giving you these blessings. Any amount of sujud you do to him will not be sufficient to compensate for the blessings of a healthy child that he gives you.

And I pray Allah to give kids to all those couples who are struggling to have them.