Miss Conceptions about Marriage:

Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus?

I Don't know if men are from mars and women are from Venus, but one thing I am sure of is that both have to live in a place called earth, preferably together.

For Women:

Your Husband is NOT:

• Your Punching Bag on whom you can take out all your stress
• Your Grocery Boy who would get things from the shops unconditionally
• Your Driver who would take you out for a jolly ride when ever you want
• Your Trash bin into which you can empty your nagging comments and verbal abuses all the time
• Totally responsible for your family's finances, at least have some respect for the poor guy
• As strong as you think he is; imagine your son under a torture of a women who has loaded him with unending responsibilities
  
  
  

For Men:

Your Wife is NOT:

• A vending machine who produces children
• A maid who cleans your house and clothes
• A nanny who babysits your kids
• A cook who cooks your food
• A dumb ass who cannot do anything other than cry
• As weak as you think she is
• A programming language that will work perfectly according to your instructions

For Men and Women:

Ok Ok I know I sound very rude. We all have the habit of taking people for granted especially our spouse. This post is just a reminder about that. Now coming to the climax. What is marriage?

Here is a verse from the Quran for you:

[30:21] "Among His proofs is that He created for you spouses from among yourselves, in order to have tranquility and contentment with each other, and He placed in your hearts love and care towards your spouses. In this, there are sufficient proofs for people who think."

I don't think there is need for any explanation now, the last line says it all. “In this, there are sufficient proofs for people who think.” So just THINK what to expect and give in marriage.

Expect nothing and give everything. I am not saying it, our creator said it.